Whether you’ve been married for three months or three decades, most marriages can benefit from intentionally getting to know each other better. There’s an old adage that says: A great relationship is about two things: First, appreciating the similarities and second, respecting the differences. That’s where understanding our personality styles can be so helpful in enriching our marriages and the Enneagram is an excellent resource. The Enneagram is a personality tool that explores more than just your preferences toward life. By understanding your and your spouse’s Enneagram style, you will be able to: understand what motivates each of you and what trips you up, articulate the core emotions that impact you, discover how you communicate, and gain insight into how our personality impacts your spiritual growth.